Tuesday, 22 April 2014

My Secret story

Since I was small, I have always wanted a soul mate - a person who can share everything with me, and where we can assist each other on our journey. A few months ago, I met this person whom I instantly felt an attraction to, but I didn't think too much about it since i didn't really take it seriously
We had become close friends and out of the blue, in a friend's gathering night, I felt the attraction for this person had increased tremendously (and I felt he also had the same feeling), so I decided to use the law of attraction to attract a beautiful relationship with this person. I had this very deep knowing that we were meant to be - I kept this faith firm and strong.

I trusted the universe was arranging circumstances to let this happen - sometimes I did get doubts and worry due to  my past.Since I was small, I have always wanted a soul mate - a person who can share everything with utter interference, but intuitively I knew that whatever happened, they were just catalysts that would bring us together. So each day goes by, and I kept myself positive and watching romantic video clips, visualizing our dates, our wedding, and our child. I had a lot of vivid dreams of him, so I took these dreams as a good omen of what was coming into reality. When I lacked patience - which we often do I believe! - I just affirmed to myself that we are going to get married next year no matter what.- right now the feeling is that of anger and deceit... how could he? how could he waste my time just like that...

it gets me thinking ....am i ready to commit again?

"If you can believe, all things are possible to those who believe." - Mark 9:23

Achievers are believers: they believe in themselves and in life

"When faced with a mountain, I will not quit
I'll keep on striving until I climb over,
Find a path through, tunnel underneath,
Or simply stay and turn my mountain into a gold mine.
I will not quit."

Achievers are dreamers and DOERS. Take small steps and
you'll find that one step leads to another, then the next.
"Rome wasn't built in a day."

Why do some people seem to always get what they want in life?
Why do some people make great achievements while others don't?
Why are some people always motivated reach their goals while others aren't?

How to become an achiever in life

  • 1)  set goals to satisfy your important needs: Most people are told that they must have goals in order to have a useful life. As a result those people try to find anything useful to do even if they don't really have passion for it. Achievers on the other hand are self motivated because they only go after what they really want not what was forced upon them by peer pressure
  • 2)  take full responsibility: All achievers without exceptions understand that they are responsible for whatever they are going through. In other words, they don't blame luck, the government, the economy or the unfairness of life but instead they strongly believe that they can change their fate with their own hands. That's the main reason why Achievers never give up. Because they have no one to blame other than themselves giving up makes no sense to them
  • 3) have a burning desire to reach their goals: How would you react if you were lost in the desert without any water then suddenly saw a car passing by? How fast are you going to run towards that car? How loud are you going to shout so that someone hears you? This is similar to the burning desire all achievers have. 
  • 4) have Perfect self understanding: There is an important question that might have came to your mind, what if you don't have a burning desire for anything? The difference between a person who has a burning desire to reach something and a one who doesn't know what he wants in life is the lack of self understanding. When you understand yourself very well you will find out the things that you are in need of the most and as a result you will have that burning desire required to become an achiever